Book Title: Babyland by Holly Chamberlin
Reflect
I really like the character of the main character-Anna Traulsen, her bravery, her honesty and her open mindness. I really like her attitude. She had everything and when she got pregnant her life changed, but still she did not abort the child. She was not yet ready to become a mother but she still accepted it. I admire her character,when she went out her comfort zone and did the things that she wants. She fell in love again and grabbed the oppurtunity to win the heart of the man she loves. Falling in love again is a very brave thing to do. When she got miscarriage, she continued her life, even though she was badly hurt, and move on. She never thought that is just the beggining of a life. A life that is full of surprises and freedom.
Connect
This story reminds me of our society. In the generation nowadays, women get pregnant unplanned specially the young ones. Teenagers engage to premarital sex and when they got pregnant they blame thier child for coming into thier lives. In this novel, Anna had a wonderful life. A stable job, a happy love life and a life she wants. Because of this, she never planned to get pregnant and have a child. Many young persons never wanted to have a child at their young age but I believe that I person can never be pregnant if she really never want to. She will not engage to premarital sex which she knows she can be pregnant. Unplanned pregnancy- this is the common thing that this novel and our society has.
Question
I wonder why Anna never thought that his ex-fiance -Ross Davis, could be a gay? Ross is a guy who takes care of hiself a lot and a soft-type guy. When she got pregnant, Ross did not like to make love to her and he lost his interest on her but never on her wildest dreams, she imagined that Ross is a gay and she never accepted it. I always thought that when a person is in love, he/she can not like or can have a crush on another person but why did Anna felt a little crush on Jack Coltrane? Could anyone really like another person even if he/she is already in love? Or its just Anna never loved Ross as his one big great love? Did he not love Ross as the one that she will love forever? Did she thought that she can love another person more than he loved Ross? Did she liked Jack even before she met Ross?
Predict
I think that Anna and Ross can have a happy marriage life even though they did not planned to have a child. I'am expecting that Anna can be a great mom and she will love her new life. I also think that she and Ross will have more children.
Part two
9. Anna Traulsen is a brave woman, she have a life that she wants but when she got pregnant, without her control, she still continued her pregnancy and she did not abort the child. When she got miscarriage she never stopped her life. When she and Ross broke up, she never closed her heart on falling in love again with his friend, Jack, and now they have a happy life together.
Ross Davis is the ex-fiance of Anna, like Anna he also never wanted to have a child but he accepted it. Their relationship failed because there is still something that Ross wants to have. He is a type of guy that is so conscious about himself and always cares to what other people says.
Jack Coltane is the friend of Ann who have a feeling for her. He was the opposite of Ross. He was an arrogant, a serious and he never cared what others will say to him type of guy. When Ross left Anna, he was there and he never left Anna. They are happy now with their life together.
"Life, as you know, is deliciously uncertain."
-Anna Traulsen
At first, I was confused about its idea. Life being delicious but not certain? Could that be possible? I mean how can life be delicious when things fall down and things happen beyond your control? How can life be delicious but at the same uncertain? But later I realized that it does make sense. Even if life is uncertain or things happen without your control it is still delicious-sweet, because everything will fall down right in to its perfect place and it is for your best. Even if things go wrong, and it changes, it will still be tasty and delicious because it could be a blessing in disguise.
10. My favorite part is when Anna fell in love again with Jack Coltrane. it is my favorite part because for me, falling in love again is a brave thing. it takes a lot of courage to let yourself fall in love even if you are badly hurt to your first love. You should never be afraid to take the risk to fall in love again.Loving a person is a magic, and loving you back is a blessing. You should always try to fall in love again and believe at second chances. Not all people are given the chance to be love by the one that she loves. One should treasure what she has while it is there.